These States Still Have Laws That Can Make Adult Children Pay for a Parent’s Care

Most adults probably assume their parents’ unpaid nursing-home bills could never legally become their problem unless they signed something agreeing to pay. In much of the country, that’s generally a reasonable assumption, but an old category of statutes known as filial responsibility laws makes the answer considerably more complicated in some states. These laws can create a legal duty for financially capable adult children to help support parents who cannot support themselves, although the circumstances and potential liability differ dramatically from one state to another. The National Conference of State Legislatures reported in its July 2025 review that 27 states still had filial laws, while noting that several others had recently repealed theirs. The statutes are rarely enforced today, but one famous Pennsylvania case shows why families dealing with expensive long-term care shouldn’t assume “rarely” means “never.”

Filial Responsibility Laws Still Exist Across Much of the Country

The National Conference of State Legislatures describes filial responsibility laws as colonial-era statutes requiring adult children to pay for the care of indigent parents, and says 27 states still have such laws. States identified in current surveys as retaining some form of filial-support provision include:

• Alaska
• Arkansas
• California
• Connecticut
• Delaware
• Georgia
• Indiana
• Kentucky
• Louisiana
• Massachusetts
• Mississippi
• Nevada
• New Hampshire
• New Jersey
• North Carolina
• North Dakota
• Ohio
• Oregon
• Pennsylvania
• Rhode Island
• South Dakota
• Tennessee
• Vermont
• Virginia
• West Virginia

Counts can differ depending on exactly which types of statutes are included. Recent repeals are important because older lists circulating online may still include Idaho, Iowa, Montana, and Utah even though NCSL says those states removed their laws. These aren’t uniform statutes that automatically make every adult child responsible for every unpaid medical or nursing-home bill. Instead, filial responsibility laws differ substantially in who qualifies as a parent in need, what children can be required to provide, and who can pursue payment.

Pennsylvania Shows How Expensive the Risk Can Become

If you want to understand why an obscure law deserves attention, Pennsylvania provides perhaps the best example. In the 2012 Pennsylvania Superior Court case Health Care & Retirement Corporation of America v. Pittas, an adult son was held responsible for roughly $93,000 in unpaid nursing-home costs under Pennsylvania’s filial-support statute.

The $93,000 judgment in the Pittas case still sounds enormous, but today’s long-term-care costs put it in perspective. CareScout’s 2025 survey found a national median of $129,575 a year for a private nursing-home room and $114,975 for a semi-private room, meaning a single year of care can now exceed the amount at issue in that landmark case.

Pennsylvania’s current statute says a child can have a responsibility to care for, maintain, or financially assist an indigent parent, subject to specific exceptions. One important exception applies when the child doesn’t have sufficient financial ability, while another protects a child when a parent abandoned that child and continued the abandonment for at least 10 years during the child’s minority. Pennsylvania therefore illustrates both sides of the issue: the law can have serious financial consequences, but liability isn’t automatically imposed simply because someone has an aging parent.

The Rules Can Be Completely Different From One State to Another

Putting every state with filial responsibility laws into one bucket can create more fear than useful information. NCSL notes, for example, that Arkansas’s provision is limited to adult mental care, while Connecticut’s applies only when a parent is younger than 65. Nevada’s rule is narrower in another way, with NCSL saying filial liability there requires a written agreement to pay for care. Virginia’s support statute says adults age 18 or older with sufficient earning capacity or income, after reasonably providing for their own immediate families, have a duty to assist a mother or father in “necessitous circumstances.” These differences are precisely why a national list can tell you whether you should investigate further, but it can’t tell you whether you’re personally liable for a particular parent’s bill.

Medicaid Changes the Long-Term-Care Equation

One reason these old laws don’t generate lawsuits every day is that Medicaid plays a major role in financing long-term nursing-home care for people who meet its financial and medical eligibility requirements. Medicaid explains that someone may initially enter a facility using Medicare skilled-nursing coverage, private payment, or long-term-care insurance and later transition to Medicaid nursing-facility benefits after exhausting assets if eligibility requirements are met. That doesn’t mean Medicaid simply erases every financial issue associated with long-term care, however. Federal rules require states to pursue Medicaid estate recovery for certain benefits paid for people age 55 or older, including nursing-facility and home- and community-based services, subject to protections and hardship provisions. Estate recovery generally concerns the Medicaid recipient’s estate, which is legally different from a filial-responsibility claim imposing an independent obligation on an adult child.

Your Parent’s Debt Doesn’t Automatically Become Your Debt

This distinction may be the most important takeaway for families reading about filial responsibility laws for the first time. Having a parent with $50,000, $100,000, or more in unpaid care expenses doesn’t automatically transfer that debt onto an adult child’s credit card statement simply because they’re related.

Whether personal liability exists can depend on state law, the parent’s financial circumstances, the child’s ability to provide support, Medicaid eligibility, contracts that were signed, and other facts. That’s also why families should be cautious when completing nursing-home admission paperwork and understand exactly what they’re agreeing to before signing as a guarantor, responsible party, or financial agent. A filial-support obligation created by state law and a contractual obligation someone voluntarily accepts can be two very different legal issues.

Don’t Drain Your Retirement Savings Before You Know Who Owes the Bill

A frightening nursing-home balance can make adult children feel pressured to start paying immediately, but a parent’s unpaid bill isn’t automatically the child’s personal debt. Before pulling $20,000 from savings, taking a retirement-account withdrawal, borrowing against a home, or putting care expenses on a credit card, determine who is legally responsible and whether Medicare, Medicaid, insurance, the parent’s assets, or another source should cover some of the cost.

Taking money from a traditional IRA or 401(k) can also create income-tax consequences, while borrowing to cover someone else’s care can turn a disputed family obligation into the adult child’s very real personal debt. Families facing a large balance should gather the admission agreement, bills, insurance information, Medicaid correspondence, powers of attorney, and other financial documents before deciding how to respond. When six-figure annual nursing-home costs are possible, understanding the obligation first can protect both the parent’s care plan and the adult child’s retirement security.

Living in Another State May Not Make the Question Disappear

Another common misconception is that these statutes couldn’t matter if the adult child lives hundreds of miles away. The relevant legal questions can become more complicated when the parent, adult child, care provider, and assets aren’t all located in the same jurisdiction. Pennsylvania’s statute, for example, gives its courts jurisdiction over certain support proceedings involving indigent people residing there and permits an interested person, public body, or public agency to petition the court. That doesn’t mean a nursing home can automatically send an enforceable bill across state lines whenever it wants, and jurisdiction and enforcement issues require case-specific legal analysis. Families with a parent receiving costly care in a state with filial responsibility laws shouldn’t rely solely on the child’s state of residence when deciding whether legal advice is necessary.

Recent Repeals Show Why Old Online Lists Can Mislead You

Searching “states where children have to support their parents” produces plenty of lists, but some are based on laws that haven’t existed for years. NCSL specifically identifies Idaho, Montana, Iowa, and Utah among states that have recently removed filial responsibility provisions from their books. Iowa’s attorney general, for example, now explicitly tells consumers that Iowa has no general filial-responsibility law and notes that its former statute was repealed in 2015. That matters because an article written a decade ago could give a family a very different impression of its potential liability today. When real money is at stake, check the current statute or speak with an elder-law attorney rather than relying on an undated state-by-state graphic shared online.

Be Careful What You Sign When a Parent Enters a Nursing Home

Filial responsibility laws aren’t the only way an adult child can become entangled in a parent’s long-term-care bills, which makes nursing-home admission paperwork worth reading carefully before signing. Federal regulations prohibit a Medicare- or Medicaid-certified nursing facility from requiring a third party to personally guarantee payment as a condition of admission, expedited admission, or continued stay, but family members may still encounter documents asking them to sign in different capacities. Someone acting under power of attorney or helping manage a parent’s money should understand whether they’re signing only as the parent’s representative or agreeing to any separate personal obligation.

That distinction matters when the national median cost of a private nursing-home room now approaches $130,000 a year, making even a misunderstanding about several months of care potentially expensive. If the paperwork is unclear about who is financially responsible, getting an explanation (or legal advice before signing) can be far cheaper than trying to untangle the obligation after bills have accumulated.

Plan for Long-Term Care Before an Old Law Becomes a New Problem

Most adult children will never find themselves hauled into court under filial responsibility laws, and NCSL emphasizes that these statutes are rarely invoked. Still, the combination of enormous long-term-care costs, complicated Medicaid eligibility rules, and old state support statutes creates enough financial exposure that families shouldn’t wait for an unpaid nursing-home bill to start asking questions. If a parent may soon need long-term care, review their income, assets, insurance, Medicaid eligibility, estate documents, and any facility contracts before a crisis forces someone to make decisions quickly. Families facing substantial care expenses in a filial-responsibility state may also want advice from an elder-law attorney familiar with that state’s current statute rather than assuming an adult child either definitely will or definitely won’t be responsible.

Did you know your state could have a law requiring adult children to help support an indigent parent, or is this the first time you’ve heard of filial responsibility laws? Share your thoughts in the comments.

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Drew Blankenship

Drew Blankenship is a seasoned personal finance and lifestyle writer with more than a decade of professional writing experience crafting clear, actionable advice that helps savers and investors over 40 protect their wealth and make smarter everyday decisions. His bylines appear regularly on SavingAdvice.com, CleverDude.com, and other respected outlets, where he draws on deep industry knowledge to deliver practical insights on cost control, smart spending, and long-term financial security.