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    Oh No Dave, say it aint so!!!

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    Dave Ramsey Tells Millions What to Do With Their Money. People Under 40 Say He’s Wrong.


    Young adults are rejecting the finance guru’s advice to live frugally while getting out of debt

    By Julie Jargon Follow and Ann-Marie Alcántara
    Feb. 17, 2024 5:30 am ET
    (2 min)

    On their own for the first time, young professionals are craving sound financial advice. They just don’t want to hear it from Dave Ramsey.

    Ramsey, the well-known and intensely followed 63-year-old conservative Christian radio host, has 4.4 million Instagram followers, 1.9 million TikTok followers and legions more who listen to his radio shows and podcasts. His message is brutal and direct: Avoid debt at all costs. Pay for everything in cash. Embrace frugality.

    Plenty of 20- and 30-year-olds are pushing back, largely on TikTok. The hashtag #daveramseywouldntapprove, for instance, has 66.8 million views. Many say they don’t want to eat rice and beans every night—a popular Ramsey trope—or hold down multiple jobs to pay off loans. They also say Ramsey is out of touch with their reality.

    Rising inflation has led to surging prices for groceries, cars and many essentials. The cost of a college education has skyrocketed in two decades, with the average student debt for federal loans at $37,000, according to the Education Department. Overall debts for Americans in their 30s jumped 27% from late 2019 to early 2023—steeper than for any other age group. And home prices have risen considerably, while wages haven’t kept pace.

    Morgan Sanner took out a loan to buy a newer, more reliable car, something Ramsey cautions against doing.
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    “What Dave Ramsey really misses is any kind of social context,” says Morgan Sanner, a 26-year-old who runs a résumé-advice company in Columbus, Ohio, and has shared her feelings about Ramsey on TikTok.

    She began paying off $48,000 in student loans (a Ramsey do) and also took out a loan to buy a 2016 Honda (a Ramsey don’t). Her rationale was that it was safer to pay extra for a more reliable car than a junker she could buy with cash. She feels these sorts of real-life decisions don’t factor into his advice. Her video about this has 875,000 views.

    Through a spokeswoman, Ramsey declined an interview request. Direct messages to Ramsey went unanswered.

    For Ramsey—whose TikTok posts often contain incendiary tidbits from his radio show—the pushback might be part of the plan. After all, uncomfortable advice is a key component of his success.
    ‘Pretty much screwed already’


    Naiomi Israel began watching Dave Ramsey’s videos on YouTube when she was in college at New York University, before TikTok became the go-to platform. (He has more than 500,000 subscribers on YouTube.)

    “Not knowing about money feels scary, especially when you’re a young adult and have to pay your bills,” she says. “You wonder, ‘Should I go on a trip or invest in the S&P 500?’ I’m just looking for the right answers.”



    Naiomi Israel followed some of Dave Ramsey’s advice but found some of his messages to be offensive. PHOTO: NOAH CHENG

    Israel, who now at age 23 works for a company that develops finance curricula for schools, says she was initially drawn in by Ramsey’s no-nonsense advice. He recommends setting aside some money for emergencies. She did.

    But eventually, some of his messages triggered a different response from her: “Wait, what?”

    When she saw a comment from Ramsey online about how people receiving pandemic stimulus payments were “pretty much screwed already,” Israel felt it came across as shaming people. The pandemic shutdowns ended a decadelong economic expansion for Black Americans, a disproportionate number of whom lost their jobs and relied on those checks.

    “Moralizing financial decisions is very damaging to marginalized groups,” says Israel, who is Black.

    From bankruptcy to broadcasting

    Ramsey’s anti-debt evangelism arose from personal circumstances. He says on his website that he took on too much debt while accumulating real estate as a young man. He also bought a Jaguar, jewelry for his wife and a trip to Hawaii. In 1988, he filed for bankruptcy.

    How did rich people stay rich? By not paying interest to banks, he concluded.

    He started a radio show in 1992 to answer callers’ money questions. It became the top-rated show in Nashville, Tenn., and eventually became a nationally syndicated call-in program with about 20 million weekly listeners.

    The radio program begot Ramsey Solutions, a 1,000-person company that encompasses a podcast, 23 money-management books, a budgeting app and personal-financial coaching. Dozens of
    Facebook
    groups are devoted to following his methods. Ramsey’s net worth is estimated at more than $200 million.

    No credit scores?

    Many young adults scratch their heads over his advice that people should let their credit scores dwindle and die.

    People need a good credit score, says Mandy Phillips, a 39-year-old residential mortgage loan originator in Redding, Calif. She uses TikTok and other social media to educate millennials and Gen Z about home buying. Scores are vital when applying for mortgages and rentals.

    She also takes issue with Ramsey’s advice to only obtain a home loan if you can take out a 15-year fixed-rate mortgage with a down payment of at least 10%. Few younger buyers can pay the large monthly bills of shorter-term mortgages.

    “That may have worked years ago in the ’80s and ’90s, but that’s not something that is achievable for the average American,” Phillips says.

    Ramsey acknowledges on his website that his views aren’t always in step with conventional economic thinking. “I have an unusual way of looking at the world,” he notes, nodding to his past debt troubles.

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    Housing is a particularly hot-button topic. He advises people to only buy a house with their lawfully wedded spouse. Yet many young adults are pooling their finances with partners, friends or roommates to buy their first homes.

    The debt snowball

    Ramsey is perhaps best known for advocating a “debt snowball method”: People with multiple loans pay off the smallest balances first, regardless of interest rate. As you knock out each loan, he says, the money you have to put toward larger debt snowballs. Seeing small wins motivates people to keep going, he says.

    Conventional economic theory would be to pay off the highest-interest loans first, says James Choi, a finance professor at the Yale School of Management, who has studied the advice of popular finance gurus.

    “What Dave Ramsey would say is, ‘I don’t care if paying down the highest-interest debt first is cheapest, because if you give up midway through, that’s more expensive.’ I think the jury is out on that,” Choi says.

    Ramsey’s advice has helped a lot of people reduce their spending.

    A University of Copenhagen researcher conducted a study that found that when Ramsey’s radio show entered new markets between 2004 and 2019, households in those cities decreased their monthly expenditures by at least 5.4%.

    Embracing debt


    Ramsey’s save-not-spend message sounds logical, young adults say. It’s his all-or-nothing approach that doesn’t work for them.

    Kate Hindman, a 31-year-old administrative assistant in Pasadena, Calif., who has taken an anti-Ramsey stance on TikTok, ended up with $30,000 in credit-card debt after she and her husband faced income-reducing job changes. They’ve since turned it into a consolidation loan with an 8% interest rate and pay about $1,200 a month.

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    She wonders if the debt aversion is generational. Perhaps younger people are less willing to make huge sacrifices to be debt-free. Maybe carrying some amount of debt forever is a new normal. Hindman’s video about her credit-card debt journey—and how it doesn’t align with Ramsey’s perspective—has more than 745,000 views.

    Hindman said in the TikTok video: “I’m sorry, I’m not willing to do anything to get out of debt. I’m not willing to eat rice and beans every day.”

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  • #2
    As long as it helps people get out of debt
    LivingAlmostLarge Blog

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    • #3
      Nothing new there. Typically the people who push back against Dave Ramsey's advice are the very same people who need that advice the most. I do not agree with everything he says, especially when it comes to investing, but his plan for getting out of debt is rock solid.
      Steve

      * Despite the high cost of living, it remains very popular.
      * Why should I pay for my daughter's education when she already knows everything?
      * There are no shortcuts to anywhere worth going.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by disneysteve View Post
        Nothing new there. Typically the people who push back against Dave Ramsey's advice are the very same people who need that advice the most.
        This is about what I was just getting ready to say.

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        • #5
          I watched some of the "rice and beans" woman's (Kate Hindman) TicTocs. I will say she does seems to live higher on the hog than I did at her age. I wonder what got her into the $30,000 of credit card debt in the first place. I was a little surprised, though, that she said that if someone were to give her $30,000, she would not use it to pay down her debt. She said --and this is virtual quote-- "That's my rainy day; I'd use it to fix up around my house." She is a renter, so fixing up around the house probably does not refer to maintenance and improvement. Maybe furniture and decor?

          On the whole, this does not strike me as an Under 40 thing. It just seems fairly typically US American. Botox, air travel, new clothes modeled in at least a couple videos, meals out, nail salon, etc. She is also lucky to have an excellent rent-controlled situation and inexpensive day care. But she does put money into retirement savings, and plans ahead saving for some things in the near future, such as summer camp and day care during the summer. She's comfortable dealing with the debt slowly and not making sacrifices to pay it more quickly. She is also lucky to have an excellent rent controlled situation and inexpensive day care.
          "There is some ontological doubt as to whether it may even be possible in principle to nail down these things in the universe we're given to study." --text msg from my kid

          "It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men." --Frederick Douglass

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Joan.of.the.Arch View Post
            She's comfortable dealing with the debt slowly and not making sacrifices to pay it more quickly.
            This mindset is exactly what gets so many people into trouble. They are unwilling to make any sacrifices. They want to live for today. As long as they can "afford" the payments, they don't see the debt as a problem. The issue comes when something happens to tip the scale. Maybe they get laid off, or they get injured and can't work for a few weeks, or their car suddenly needs a costly repair, or the furnace dies at home (if they are homeowners). Whatever. Suddenly the delicate balance gets thrown off and "affording" the debt payments becomes a struggle causing them to fall deeper into debt because they've been living at or even above their means until then.

            The problem here is not Dave Ramsey's advice.
            Steve

            * Despite the high cost of living, it remains very popular.
            * Why should I pay for my daughter's education when she already knows everything?
            * There are no shortcuts to anywhere worth going.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by disneysteve View Post

              This mindset is exactly what gets so many people into trouble. They are unwilling to make any sacrifices. They want to live for today. As long as they can "afford" the payments, they don't see the debt as a problem. The issue comes when something happens to tip the scale. Maybe they get laid off, or they get injured and can't work for a few weeks, or their car suddenly needs a costly repair, or the furnace dies at home (if they are homeowners). Whatever. Suddenly the delicate balance gets thrown off and "affording" the debt payments becomes a struggle causing them to fall deeper into debt because they've been living at or even above their means until then.

              The problem here is not Dave Ramsey's advice.
              As much as I'm not a fan of Dave, his advice to get out of debt (and more importantly to stay out of debt) is right. His thoughts on investing, financial advisors, withdrawal rates, etc. seems ridiculous (politely stated) and irresponsible.

              FWIW - The Money Guy's (podcast) financial order of operations (FOO) is similar but their advice is more balanced/practical.
              “Compound interest is the eighth wonder of the world. He who understands it, earns it … he who doesn’t … pays it.”

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              • #8
                He's not wrong on basic principle about debt, but I do think he is out of touch. Young generations place much higher emphasis on living in the moment and enjoying life to the fullest in their younger years, whereas I think Ramsey prescribes delaying gratification at almost all cost over his core financial principles. His advice, at least the tactical portion, falls on deaf ears for young people who face much higher startup costs in adulthood - obtaining an education, purchasing a home, etc. There's a balance to be had, and distrust of institutions and financial markets is higher than ever. To delay gratification and save for enjoyment only in old age feels like a trick, a sick joke, and it did, even when I started out on my own 20 years ago.

                Ramsey is also just another guy in an overcrowded market of personalities shelling out advice these days. Skepticism of these types is also higher than it has ever been.
                History will judge the complicit.

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                • #9
                  A lot of younger people don't want to listen to the advice of older people whether it be about finances or life in general. Nothing new here. But, some of them would benefit from employing at least some of his principals.
                  Brian

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                  • #10
                    I don't watch him, he's too harsh for me. When folks like that are so condescending it triggers my defiant personality, I do so much better with carrots than with sticks. That being said, I learned early on in my life to not do debt if I couldn't help it and thankfully, through generational wealth, good luck, chance and conservative money values, I've succeeded.

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                    • #11
                      Old news. Dave Ramsey has never exactly been popular. People in their 40s and 50s thought he was wrong too.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by MonkeyMama View Post
                        Old news. Dave Ramsey has never exactly been popular. People in their 40s and 50s thought he was wrong too.
                        I think he’s been extremely popular and successful for a long time. Multiple best selling books and a highly rated show.
                        Steve

                        * Despite the high cost of living, it remains very popular.
                        * Why should I pay for my daughter's education when she already knows everything?
                        * There are no shortcuts to anywhere worth going.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by MonkeyMama View Post
                          Old news. Dave Ramsey has never exactly been popular. People in their 40s and 50s thought he was wrong too.
                          I was a former (occasional) listener. IMHO, he’s become less empathetic, pushes his Christian conservative ideals & politics more frequently, and provides unrealistic investing (and withdrawal) prognostications. Can’t bring myself to listen anymore.

                          That being said, I’m aligned with his advocacy for living a debt free life (except mortgage debt).
                          “Compound interest is the eighth wonder of the world. He who understands it, earns it … he who doesn’t … pays it.”

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by srblanco7 View Post

                            I was a former (occasional) listener. IMHO, he’s become less empathetic, pushes his Christian conservative ideals & politics more frequently, and provides unrealistic investing (and withdrawal) prognostications. Can’t bring myself to listen anymore.

                            That being said, I’m aligned with his advocacy for living a debt free life (except mortgage debt).
                            Same here. Really any of the finance "gurus" get old after a while because their advice and shtick never changes (nor should it). Once you've heard it a few dozen or hundred times, it gets boring to keep hearing over and over. The religious stuff was always a turn off. And his investing advice is awful to the point of being dangerous and irresponsible for anyone who chooses to follow it. He should just stick to helping people out of debt but then he wouldn't get the kick backs from his team of paid advisers.
                            Steve

                            * Despite the high cost of living, it remains very popular.
                            * Why should I pay for my daughter's education when she already knows everything?
                            * There are no shortcuts to anywhere worth going.

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by disneysteve View Post

                              I think he’s been extremely popular and successful for a long time. Multiple best selling books and a highly rated show.
                              My generation had all the same complaints as the article. For the most part, people are going to whine and complain and resist help. That's all I have ever heard. In addition to that, he's always been very polarizing. But hey, no such thing as bad publicity.

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