when someone asks a question, i have a simple response. i try to answer it. i don't conceptualize them as a standardized average person and answer the question for that person. i try to answer the question for the person who asked it.
if i don't have enough information to answer the question, i tell them that. that way they have 2 choices: they can learn about what's involved in getting a real answer, or roll the dice with a random response. either way they know what they are getting - a more targeted response based on appropriate inputs, or a wild guess.
if you make the assumption that someone does not want to learn or get a good response, and without telling them that's where you are sending them, i don't think you are being fair to them...they will go off thinking they have a good strategy based on proper inputs when they are really just getting a wild guess...
if i don't have enough information to answer the question, i tell them that. that way they have 2 choices: they can learn about what's involved in getting a real answer, or roll the dice with a random response. either way they know what they are getting - a more targeted response based on appropriate inputs, or a wild guess.
if you make the assumption that someone does not want to learn or get a good response, and without telling them that's where you are sending them, i don't think you are being fair to them...they will go off thinking they have a good strategy based on proper inputs when they are really just getting a wild guess...

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