Hi Scanner, I'm sorry for the recent tumult in your life. But I think I've given you the wrong impression about our marriage. No marriage is perfect, but the hub and I discuss everything, and we end up easily agreeing/compromising on everything. We have a division of labor based not on which of us is more or less risk-tolerant, but based on what each can stand to do in terms of chores.
The hub manages the 403b because he has the interest in rebalancing our funds regularly (usually every 3 months), and has developed a program to help him choose funds each "cycle". I don't have that interest, to follow fund performance and recalculate allocations regularly, and I trust him completely to take care of both of our 403b investments. I manage pretty much everything else that has to do with money, because he's not good with budgeting, paperwork or bills and has no interest in the detailed planning or bookkeeping to minimize surprises. And he's perfectly happy with my doing this. We're paranoid enough that I've prepared a "cheat sheet" with all the things he's going to need to do about money if something happens to me unexpectedly. And everything other than our retirement funds are comingled.
The reason I'm in charge of the newer Roths is because they're new, there's little money in them, I have to make sure to take care of the contributions and conversion in a way that doesn't disturb the rest of our operating finances (the 403b are automatically deducted from our pay so there's no budgeting or thinking there) or incur unplanned tax consequences. I told him this morning that he should start thinking about how to re-invest our Roths in mutual funds. This is going to be a bit of a pain because I'll need to set up automatic investments into an after-tax IRA to minimize fees and then think about how best to convert to Roth (once a year? every month would be tedious).
I don't think either of us wants to invest our retirement funds individually. We have essentially the same amount of risk tolerance. We consider our sum retirement accounts to be family assets rather than personal assets (yes, maybe that's naive in this day and age but there you go), and we're quite comfortable with the division of labor that we currently have.
I don't know anything about AAA insured muni bonds, thanks for that tip. I'll go look up some typical yields.
The hub manages the 403b because he has the interest in rebalancing our funds regularly (usually every 3 months), and has developed a program to help him choose funds each "cycle". I don't have that interest, to follow fund performance and recalculate allocations regularly, and I trust him completely to take care of both of our 403b investments. I manage pretty much everything else that has to do with money, because he's not good with budgeting, paperwork or bills and has no interest in the detailed planning or bookkeeping to minimize surprises. And he's perfectly happy with my doing this. We're paranoid enough that I've prepared a "cheat sheet" with all the things he's going to need to do about money if something happens to me unexpectedly. And everything other than our retirement funds are comingled.
The reason I'm in charge of the newer Roths is because they're new, there's little money in them, I have to make sure to take care of the contributions and conversion in a way that doesn't disturb the rest of our operating finances (the 403b are automatically deducted from our pay so there's no budgeting or thinking there) or incur unplanned tax consequences. I told him this morning that he should start thinking about how to re-invest our Roths in mutual funds. This is going to be a bit of a pain because I'll need to set up automatic investments into an after-tax IRA to minimize fees and then think about how best to convert to Roth (once a year? every month would be tedious).
I don't think either of us wants to invest our retirement funds individually. We have essentially the same amount of risk tolerance. We consider our sum retirement accounts to be family assets rather than personal assets (yes, maybe that's naive in this day and age but there you go), and we're quite comfortable with the division of labor that we currently have.
I don't know anything about AAA insured muni bonds, thanks for that tip. I'll go look up some typical yields.
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