Today while doing a coffee run with my neighbor it came up that he views his house as part of his retirement plan. He has another 15 years until his youngest is done with high school (he's 4)! So he feels he'll get $2M out of the sale of his home at that time. That money will go to their retirement accounts and make them true up. They just bought some cheap land and are planning on building a house to "retire" in 15 years.
I told him I came to realization I have 10 more years until my DK2 graduates high school so 2030. But my DH has already said he's working until 2034 (hoping DK2 is done in 4 years
!) Anyway at that time he'll be 55. I want to sell our home and start traveling and maybe move somewhere warmer for 6 months. I think our number of $5M will be feasible if not ridiculously too much. But that being said in 15 years our house is on a 30 year note and won't be paid off mostly because I wasn't planning on staying on it.
But at the same time he asked my why wasn't i considering cashing in on the house and using it for retirement $$. I don't know. I guess I never viewed my house as savings. It's just a place to live. I do view any investment properties as investments. But our house? That's the problem with living HCOLA. The home takes up such a large part of your net worth usually. It also is expensive and lots of times it turns into a little bank.
What do people do when they retire? Cash in the house? Have you viewed it as extra money? Is it extra money because you do need a place to live, but perhaps not so big. Not so much property taxes, maintenance, etc. I hadn't considered this in detail yet. My $5M number was solely based on our investments. But I am starting to wonder should I count home equity? Should I instead say our number is hit sooner if we can cash out?
I told him I came to realization I have 10 more years until my DK2 graduates high school so 2030. But my DH has already said he's working until 2034 (hoping DK2 is done in 4 years

But at the same time he asked my why wasn't i considering cashing in on the house and using it for retirement $$. I don't know. I guess I never viewed my house as savings. It's just a place to live. I do view any investment properties as investments. But our house? That's the problem with living HCOLA. The home takes up such a large part of your net worth usually. It also is expensive and lots of times it turns into a little bank.
What do people do when they retire? Cash in the house? Have you viewed it as extra money? Is it extra money because you do need a place to live, but perhaps not so big. Not so much property taxes, maintenance, etc. I hadn't considered this in detail yet. My $5M number was solely based on our investments. But I am starting to wonder should I count home equity? Should I instead say our number is hit sooner if we can cash out?
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