I've only lived in apartments/condos my entire adult life and so has my DH. Growing up we both had SFH.
Truth is that in HCOLA condos/townhouses are the only options.
I am with steve, you need to decide what you want. I'm 30 and I make up my own mind, no input from parents. You should to. It's way to easy to blame someone else for giving you advice than it is to accept the responsibility for making the tough decision.
Personally? If you were my friend, I'd tell you to move out on your own, rent for 1 year and then buy.
See if you even like apartment/condo living. And right now you are paying $500/month and 'extreme' savings because you get a break from dad.
How will you behave when you have to pay all the bills? How will you react when you have to scrounge up cash for unexpected expenses? How will your lifestyle change when you move out and suddenly feel like going out with friends more? Or dating more?
What financial impacts are you not considering since you so cushily now and I hate to say it, in a bubble.
Truth is that in HCOLA condos/townhouses are the only options.
I am with steve, you need to decide what you want. I'm 30 and I make up my own mind, no input from parents. You should to. It's way to easy to blame someone else for giving you advice than it is to accept the responsibility for making the tough decision.
Personally? If you were my friend, I'd tell you to move out on your own, rent for 1 year and then buy.
See if you even like apartment/condo living. And right now you are paying $500/month and 'extreme' savings because you get a break from dad.
How will you behave when you have to pay all the bills? How will you react when you have to scrounge up cash for unexpected expenses? How will your lifestyle change when you move out and suddenly feel like going out with friends more? Or dating more?
What financial impacts are you not considering since you so cushily now and I hate to say it, in a bubble.
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