I Got A New Puppy. Hubby Won't Speak to me.

[cschin4]

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I have adopted animals from the local SPCA. But, 99% of the dogs they have are "beagle mixes". Nothing against beagles, but I just don't like them as indoor dogs. Beagles tend to have an oily hair and they shed as well. I wanted a non-shedding dog since we have allergies. The dog I got was a Golden Doodle (Golden retriever/standard poodle mix). He is really adorable and is the kind of dog DH would love. He really likes the dog too and the kids adore him. Anyway, of course we should have dicussed and agreed on it.

[shelbylovesmelby]

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Ya I was excited when dh bought me a puppy.... til all this dogs care was on my shoulders.
Plus I really hate taking him out in winter as he see's something & he's off & running.... so try being pg & being pulled down your back steps in the snow on your rump.

Unfortunatly our dog is still with us, as dh won't part w/ him but I'm the one who has to care for him! ]

[tgavin71]

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Is it just me or is this fad with designer dogs a joke. $200 for a mongrel! That's basically what they are. If I was going to pay that much I'd want a pure breed that I could be almost certain of the temperment.

[cschin4]

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Actually $200 is cheap for a mongrel. Now people want "designer mutts". A purebred dog is easily over $1000 depending on the breed.

[geojen]

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What's so great about purebreds? They are more prone to genetic disorders than mutts (i.e. bad hips, arthritis, etc). Plus, mutts win the "temperment" test every time--mutts have the reputation of being the most agreeable dogs.

Besides that, the whole idea of purebreds is silly. There is really no such thing, as people just began breeding dogs for certain qualities less than 200 years ago. At least, that is what I saw on the discovery channel.

[cicy33]

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We have a black lab and it took a lot of convincing to get her but we did not get her until we both agreed because as said above dogs are time consuming, money eating, energy exhausting creatures. Ours stays in the house cuz I wanted a house dog. We want another but I have put my foot down and will not allow another until a fence is built where they can just go out and run. Dogs are so much work and I am already tired somedays of doing what I do with her. I would love to just open the door and let them out. Anytime you add a family member you need to be in agreement. Perhaps if you admit you should have discussed first he might melt a little. Explain you are sorry and would really like to make the dog a family member. I don't like the permission word. You are not a child. buy you are in a joint relationship and like it or not things like this are major decisions. not like buying a purse or something. I do love my dog and my hubby and her are the best of friends!

[veronak]

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It is always best to talk things over before you go ahead. Dogs are great but they require a big commitment in time and money!

I totally agree..but good luck any way

[Thrifty Ray]

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Puppies are really cute....and Im betting your dh will enjoy your new pet. But....

I have to agree that a new member of the family, especially one that will be mischevious for a couple of years, chew on things, potty in the wrong places until trained otherwise, dig, bark, and incur vet bills, should be a joint decision.

However, I am sure your retriever will bring you much joy and companionship...certainly much unconditional love!!! Just stay patient and consistent...and at times FIRM!! (Watch the dog whisperer, he is great with dogs!)

And here is wishing you luck that your DH doesnt step a in surprise before he falls head over heels in love....lol

[abowers]

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Actually $200 is cheap for a mongrel. Now people want "designer mutts". A purebred dog is easily over $1000 depending on the breed.

I do believe my mother spent over $600 on a Cairn Terrier. And they didn't even train her. She's unruly.

[abowers]

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We adopted a retired racing greyhound this summer, for $235 which included all the shots & being fixed. She has the best temperament and has been easy to train.

[lorraine67]

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Ohhh good luck!!

[cschin4]

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Hi,
All is well. DH is in love with the pup. You would have to have a heart of stone not to love this pup. I am working on training the pup. Our other dog is taking well to him. And, 2 is my legal limit. I certainly don't want more than 2 dogs.

[cicy33]

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Very pleased to hear that! dogs are wonderful and I love mine. I am so glad that your dh came around. Good luck on the training.

[abowers]

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We talked about getting a dog for probably 6 or 7 months before we actually adopted her. We were trying to decide between cat or dog, and we had to wait until we moved to a different (pet-friendly) apartment. Once we decided we wanted a dog/greyhound we read up on the breed, did research on the internet, looked into the different adoption groups, made sure we'd be able to work out having a dog (feeding, taking her out, spending time with her) with our schedules, plus cost of food and any unexpected medical costs with adopting a former racing dog. It was not an impulsive thing at all!

[Smj29]

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Congratulations on the new dog. I hope the training goes well. Petsmart offers a pretty decent program.

I too have brought a puppy home unannounced. Boy that was tough, my husband is still angry and that was 4 years ago. And the dog has since went to live with my brother. They formed a bond and really do belong together. Hindsight it was good that I brought the dog home, hes turned out to be an excellent roommate for my brother.