Wedding invitation received...

[scrava]

Re: Wedding invitation received...

wow. that seems like it would be stressful for the bride and groom. how many people to feed, how many to seat, etc.

Actually the invitation was for both the ceremony and the reception. I can't imagine how they will plan on how many to be there since it said "dinner and dance" if they don't have some sort of RSVP.

[markio26]

Re: Wedding invitation received...

never heard of anyone not rsvping???? this is a new one to me.... i was ticked off by our 2 millionaire friends weddings this yr... we went out of our way to gift, high dollar and neither sent a thank you card or even verbally thanked us... next time, the invitation will go right into the trash... we are not doing weddings or funerals anymore.... just cards.... and an offer of a dinner...

[Ima saver]

Re: Wedding invitation received...

If there is no rsvp, then I would not respond or attend. I doubt they will notice it. I am getting tired of being invited to weddings and baby showers and never getting a thank you note. When dh and I got married, we expected no presents. We already had a furnished house and needed nothing.

[rob62521]

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I'm beginning to think sending thank you notes is a forgotten art. We bought some gifts off a registry for dh's cousin's son and never received a thank you. We couldn't attend the wedding, but felt we should send a gift since it was family, although we hadn't seen any of them for years. My dh's nephew was the same way. He was too busy to spend time with us, but was sure happy to cash the check, but never acknowledged it, until he didn't receive one and had his mom ask why. I received a hateful email from him when I told his mom that we thought he was ungrateful and didn't feel he appreciated what we gave him. His loss in reality. Since we don't have kids, he probably could have been named in our wills, but since he decided we weren't good enough to even notice, he doesn't get a red cent.