Just to add to what I said above.
I have a pharmacy tech who is an immigrant from Egypt. He works as an overnight pharmacy tech because he can get 7 nights off(7 on 7off shift) so he can work another full time overnight shift at another hospital. He had about 5 total days off in a given year. I asked him why he is working so hard..his response was "I am ensuring that both of my daughters that are now in medical school can come out debt free". He said "I don't have the ability to make anything out of myself, but I need to make sure my children can have a successful life".
Eventually he had to quit one of his job due to heart problems(given that he's in his 60s).
This is the culture of immigrants..you hear these stories in all of Asia and it's considered to be something that SHOULD be done by all parents. Parents are actually considered to be "bad parents" if they didn't make such sacrifices..that is our culture. My parents still can't get over the fact that my wife's parents didn't make such sacrifices which led to her carrying student loan debt..something that's practically unheard of.
All I hear from some of my colleagues are "my parents didn't pay for my tuition, why should I prepay or save for my kids' tuition?..I turned out just fine without the handout". This is the culture that's acceptable here...so continue on buying your beer and relax....
I have a pharmacy tech who is an immigrant from Egypt. He works as an overnight pharmacy tech because he can get 7 nights off(7 on 7off shift) so he can work another full time overnight shift at another hospital. He had about 5 total days off in a given year. I asked him why he is working so hard..his response was "I am ensuring that both of my daughters that are now in medical school can come out debt free". He said "I don't have the ability to make anything out of myself, but I need to make sure my children can have a successful life".
Eventually he had to quit one of his job due to heart problems(given that he's in his 60s).
This is the culture of immigrants..you hear these stories in all of Asia and it's considered to be something that SHOULD be done by all parents. Parents are actually considered to be "bad parents" if they didn't make such sacrifices..that is our culture. My parents still can't get over the fact that my wife's parents didn't make such sacrifices which led to her carrying student loan debt..something that's practically unheard of.
All I hear from some of my colleagues are "my parents didn't pay for my tuition, why should I prepay or save for my kids' tuition?..I turned out just fine without the handout". This is the culture that's acceptable here...so continue on buying your beer and relax....
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